Approximate Age |
Physical and Social Development |
What Children Need |
Birth to 3 Months
Most babies |
- Begin to smile
- Follows people and objects with their eyes
- Prefer bright colors
- Stretches arms and kicks legs
- Raise head and chest while on stomach
- Responds to familiar people
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- Protection from physical danger
- Proper nutrition
- Regular health care
- Motor and sensory stimulation
- Language stimulation
- Responsive parenting
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4 to 6 months
Most babies |
- Smile often
- Laugh, gurgle and imitate sounds
- Listen intently, respond when spoken to
- Explore hands and feet
- Rolls both ways
- Sits with and without support
- Transfers objects hand to hand
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- Protection from physical danger
- Proper nutrition
- Regular health care
- Motor and sensory stimulation
- Language stimulation
- Responsive parenting
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7 to 9 months
Most babies |
- Crawls and pulls up to sitting position
- Shy or anxious around strangers
- Walk while holding furniture or walk alone
- Feeds finger foods
- Explores and finds hidden objects
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- Protection from physical danger
- Proper nutrition
- Regular health care
- Motor and sensory stimulation
- Language stimulation
- Responsive parenting
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10 to 12 months
Most babies |
- Waves bye-bye
- Crawls, cruises with confidence
- Picks up objects with thumb and finger
- Says Mama and Dada to parents
- plays peek-a-boo and patty cake
- imitate adults
- Walk while holding furniture or walk alone
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- Protection form physical danger
- Proper nutrition
- Regular health care
- Motor and sensory stimulation
- Language stimulation
- Responsive parenting
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1 to 2 years |
- Walk alone, begin to run
- Pull toys
- Imitate adult actions
- Plays make believe
- Sorts shapes and colors
- Point to a picture that you name in a book
- Play ball
- Play with other children
- Use words three to five in a sentence
- To learn self-control
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In addition to above listed:
- Explore motor, language, and thinking skills
- Chances to develop independence
- Play and explore
- Social development with other children
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2 to 3 ½ years |
- Enjoy learning new skills
- Learn language rapidly
- Likes help with tasks
- Gain control of hands and fingers (turn one page at a time)
- Put on their shoes
- Play with other children for a few minutes
- Start to share
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In addition to the above listed:
- Make simple choices
- Engage in dramatic play
- Read with adults
- Sing favorite songs
- Work simple puzzles
- Time to run, jump and play
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3 to 5 years |
- Longer attention span
- Climbs well, kicks a ball
- Likes to play with friends
- Understands mine, his/hers, shares and take turns sometimes
- Asks questions and talks a lot
- Does not like to lose when playing with friends
- Acts silly, boisterous, may use language that is not nice
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In additions to the above listed:
- Develop fine motor skills
- Continue expanding language skills by talking, reading and signing
- Learn cooperation by helping and sharing
- Experiment with pre-writing and pre-reading
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5 to 8 years |
- Curious about people and how the world works
- Show an increased interest in numbers, letters, writing and reading
- Show more confidence in physical skills
- Meet and play with more children; cooperatively
- Likes grown-up activities
- Uses words to express feelings
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In additions to the above listed:
- Develop skills for reading and math
- Engage in problem solving
- Practice teamwork
- Develop sense of personal competency
- Practice question and observing life skills
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9 to 12 years |
- More graceful with movements and abilities
- Jumps, skips and chases
- Dresses and grooms self completely
- Can use tools (i.e., hammer, screwdriver with supervision)
- Remainder of adult teeth will develop
- Likes hobbies and group activities
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In addition to the above listed:
- Become more interested in boy-girl relationships
- Likes and respects parents
- Friends are very important, may have a best friend
- Likes competition and games
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